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Why Are You Dating a Creative Writing Major?

Picture it, you’re walking down the street when a beautiful woman stops you to ask for directions. She seems nice, so you offer to help her find a taxi. As you’re talking, you realise you have a shared love for books and movies. You find out that she’s applying for a master’s degree in creative writing and that her field is literature. Her studies have inspired her to write a novel, which she hopes to publish one day. When she heard that you were studying creative writing, too, she invited you to take a walk with her so she could show you her work. You feel honored that she thinks of you as a potential companion for her novel, and you both laugh at how strange it is to pursue a relationship while working toward a joint goal. Suddenly, a charming stranger approaches and asks the two of you for a dance. You’ll never forget that night, as you two groove together to James Bond’s “This is London.”

If this scene sounds like something out of a romantic comedy, you’re not alone. According to the United States Census Bureau, about 10% of Americans aged 25–34 love movies and TV shows so much that they consider them to be an essential part of their lives. These people are commonly referred to as “digital natives” because they grew up in an age when screens were always nearby and their attention was drawn to pictures rather than words. This type of person is attracted to the story lines and characters in films and TV shows because they feel a deeper connection to the images onscreen rather than the dialogue or situations described in the stories.

From an early age, you were probably exposed to media — whether it was television, movies, or online videos. And it’s fair to say that most of these images were of glamorous and fashionable people. Now that you’re dating a creative writing major, you’ll likely be exposed to a whole world of literature and film theory, all of which can help you articulate your feelings and think critically about your choices in romantic partners.

They Have An In-Depth Understanding Of Literature

Before you start dating, your partner should be someone you can trust, someone you can have a long-term committed relationship with. A study published in the Social Science Journal found that people who were able to better articulate their emotional experiences were more likely to have healthier relationships. It seems that being able to talk to your partner about your feelings and trust that they’ll listen and be there for you as a friend, helps make your bond stronger.

As you get to know your partner better, you can start to ask questions about their values and opinions. One of the first things you’ll learn about your significant other is that they’re a literature nerd and quote famous books and authors at the drop of a hat. Your partner is most likely to bring a copy of “Ulysses” to your first anniversary and may even present you with a book they think you’ll enjoy on your next date.

Along with being a smart conversationalist, having an in-depth knowledge of and appreciation for literature makes your partner more interesting and appealing. Even better, you’ll learn something new every time you read a novel or review a movie. For example, you’ll discover a new interpretation of a Shakespearean quote or a deeper meaning behind a John Wayne film persona.

They Are Broadminded Individuals Who Are Willing To Try New Things

People who grew up in the digital age have embraced the change and are keen to continue exploring the worlds of art and literature. According to a survey by the British Journal of Sociology, 89% of millennials would rather pursue a creative hobby than look for a 9–5 job. The sociologists behind the study believe that today’s artists and writers are breaking free from traditional ideas about what it means to be creative and are creating their own definitions of what makes them unique.

If your partner exhibits any of these qualities, you’ll have a creative mind-sponge to keep you busy and out of trouble. If you can’t think of anything better to do with your free time, you can always take them up on their offer to show you their work or help them with their studies. Just make sure you don’t expect too much — after all, you’re probably both still fairly new to this whole “dating” thing.

They Have A Wider World Perspective

It’s not every day that you meet someone who can teach you so much about the world. For starters, your partner is most likely to be from a different country to you, which means they can add a whole new layer of meaning and culture to your love story. And although you may have met through friends or work, your partner may have spent time living in different countries which they’ll be eager to share with you.

In some cases, this extended world view may even be a source of conflict. For instance, your partner may come from a culture where arranged marriages are the norm and they’re not prepared to enter into one just yet. However, you two should probably still find a way to work out your differences and reach an amicable compromise. Learning to be flexible and open-minded about the people and values around you will make you a stronger person, which may also help your relationship weather any storms that come your way.

They Are Genuinely Interested In Teaching You

According to a Genuinely Interested in Teaching You (GITYOU) score of 47 out of 60, your partner is probably someone who is genuinely interested in teaching you, rather than just finding a way to get into your bed or booty call. These people are usually highly motivated and want to share their knowledge and experience with others. Additionally, you’ll most likely find that your partner has a genuine interest in teaching you things that you didn’t get the opportunity to learn in school. For example, maybe you’ve never studied art or music. Your partner may know a whole lot about these subjects and be able to guide you through the basics of drawing, painting, or playing an instrument.

These are all things that a creative writing minor could teach you. And if it comes to romance, your partner may already have some advice or tips for bettering your relationships through literature. It’s not hard to see why so many people are drawn to a career in creative writing — all of this learning and insight could easily be channeled into a guide or manifesto for bettering your romantic circumstances. And the fact that this is a fairly low-stress and self-motivated field means that you’ll most likely be able to continue your education and grow with your partner as their relationship with you develops.

The key points to keep in mind as you date a creative writing major are as follows:

  • They love books and movies
  • They are broadminded individuals who are willing to try new things
  • They have an in-depth understanding of literature
  • They are genuinely interested in teaching you

With a little bit of luck and self-reflection, it’s possible that your romantic life can improve through your studies. And if you can’t get enough of books and movies, you can always find tutors and study partners who are also fans of Shakespeare, Dumas, or other great authors.