You’re at a loss: You’ve spent all afternoon trying to make your wedding day perfect, but all your planning and strategizing have gone down the drain. You’ve spent all afternoon trying to make your wedding day perfect, but all your planning and strategizing have gone down the drain. Your dress doesn’t fit; the photographer’s done a terrible job; your hair and makeup feel awful; and your smile doesn’t even feel genuine. You’re about to walk down the aisle and say your vows when you catch sight of your guest list. Ouch. Just ouch.
You want to cry, but you’ve got a wedding to attend. So you hold it together and walk down the aisle. As you do, you look around and notice that some of your guests haven’t bothered to dress up for the occasion. Others are wearing boring-looking dresses or suits. Some are even wearing their gym clothes. And some of your attendees are even driving the same old boring cars as they did last year! Not one, but two vans are pulling up outside. It seems your friends have gotten bored of coming to your wedding, and you’ve driven them all hard to impress them with your big day. But all this effort is for naught. As soon as you say your vows, your guests head for the door. Some of them haven’t even bothered to show up. And the ones who have come are busy texting on their phones.
It hurts. It really, really hurts. At this point, you could either break down and cry or pull yourself together and walk back up the aisle. You clutch your bouquet as you walk, trying to hide your tears. You walk back up the aisle as guests cheer and clap. As you look around, you see that some have even got up and left before the ceremony ended. You look around, and you see that some have even got up and left before the ceremony ended. What happened? Was it something you said? Is it your beautiful wife, who you adore, but who didn’t show up? Something about her makeup and hair, maybe?
You might be wondering what happened, exactly. You might be wondering what happened, exactly. Maybe it’s the way you look. Did you get a bad hair transplant? Is your skin ok? Did you eat something funny? Was it something about the venue? Or are you just not happy with how things turned out?
Whatever the case, something went wrong. But you can’t really blame your guests. You see, for weddings, everything happens so fast; there’s so much going on that you can’t help but rush through the process without paying attention to detail. And sometimes, you just have to go with the flow and enjoy the ride. Even when everything goes wrong, you can’t really hold it against your attendees. It’s just that your wedding day was supposed to be perfect, and it wasn’t.
As you sit there at the end of the wedding day, everything is a blur. You feel relieved that the day is finally over and that you’ve survived it. You look around and notice that your guests have started to leave. Some have even offered to help with the cleanup. Others have even offered to help with the cleanup. Many of your guests have stayed for the dinner, which you’ve served promptly at 5 p.m. You notice that some of your friends are wandering around with their cell phones, taking selfies and holding up the walls of the banquet room. Some of your friends are wandering around with their cell phones, taking selfies and holding up the walls of the banquet room. You wonder how you’ll ever be able to look at food and drink in the same way again. But you manage to hold it together and get through the cleanup process. When you finally get a chance to sit down and decompress, you turn on your iPad and see that there are dozens of apps and websites that can help you rewrite your wedding story. But will you ever find the right tool for the job?
You might be wondering what happened, exactly. You might be wondering what happened, exactly. Maybe it’s the way you look. Did you get a bad hair transplant? Is your skin ok? Did you eat something funny? Was it something about the venue? Or are you just not happy with how things turned out? Whatever the case, something went wrong. But you can’t really blame your guests. You see, for weddings, everything happens so fast; there’s so much going on that you can’t help but rush through the process without paying attention to detail. And sometimes, you just have to go with the flow and enjoy the ride. Even when everything goes wrong, you can’t really hold it against your attendees. It’s just that your wedding day was supposed to be perfect, and it wasn’t.